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Introduction
Do you want to know how to write powerful love song lyrics? There are lots of things that go into making a good song. However, this post shows you some of the most important elements of good love song lyrics. Keep reading How to Write Powerful Love Song Lyrics to learn how to write them effectively.
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How to Write Powerful Love Song Lyrics: The Elements of a Good Love Song
When you write love song lyrics, here are a few things to keep in mind.
- Write honestly about what you know from your own experience. If you do, your lyrics will be more authentic and therefore more real for your listeners.
- You need to show vulnerability on the part of the singer (e.g., When a Man Loves a Woman and Because I Love You), such as a longing and desire to be together (e.g., When a Man Loves a Woman, Because I Love You, and Da Do Ron Ron).
- Also, it’s effective to show strong commitment on the part of the singer (When a Man Loves a Woman and Because I Love You).
The following songs show you some common love song components in action.
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Video: When a Man Loves a Woman
Video: Da Do Ron Ron
Video: Because I Love You
How to Write Powerful Love Song Lyrics: What Point of View (POV) Do I Use?
You have three POV you can use when writing.
First Person: The singer (“I”) is the narrator who is part of the story but doesn’t sing to a specific person.
Second Person: The singer (“I”) is again the narrator who is part of the story but now sings to a specific person (“you”) who is the audience.
Third Person: The singer is the narrator who is not part of the story and will sing about characters and things (“he,” “she,” and “it”) other than himself or herself.
“Because I Love You”
- While any POV can be effective, second person perspective is a popular choice.
- Why? Because it makes the song more intimate.
- How does it do this? By having the singer sing to the audience, it helps the audience fuse with the singee’s character, making the lyrics feel both more immediate and personal.
For example, “I got your letter from postman just the other day. So, I decided to write you this song…”
“When a Man Loves a Woman”
- The original version of When a Man Loves a Woman, sung by Percy Sledge, is in third person perspective.
- However, the 1990s Michael Bolton version transforms it into second person perspective by adding some additional lyrics.
For example, “Yes, when a man loves a woman, I know exactly how he feels.”
“Da Doo Ron Ron”
- Da Doo Ron Ron is in first person perspective.
- The lyrics have a personal feel to them, but not quite as intimate as second person perspective because the singer isn’t singing specifically to the audience.
- However, it’s much easier to create imagery with first rather than second person perspective.
- Why? Because in second person perspective the singee’s character would have been there for the things the singer is describing, which can make the lyrics feel unnatural.
- You can get around this by describing how something made you feel (e.g., “It felt so good when I wrapped my arms around you”) or as a memory (e.g., “Remember when we ran through the park together hand in hand”).
In first person perspective, you don’t have this problem.
How to Write Powerful Love Song Lyrics: Use Literal and Figurative Imagery
When you use literal imagery, you’ll describe the scenes by painting pictures with your words.
For example:
When a man loves a woman
Spend his very last dime
And trying to hold on to what he needs
He’d give up all his comforts
And sleep out in the rain
If she said that’s the way it ought to be
– When a Man Loves a Woman
When writing, show don’t tell.
- For example, don’t just say, “I love you.”
- Show it: “I can feel the afterimage of your lips on mine.”
Also, it can be effective to describe strong emotions in terms of physical responses.
- Thumping heart
- Sweaty palms
- You took my breath away
- The room grew hot
- Blushing
For example:
I met her on a Monday and my heart stood still…
-Da Doo Ron Ron
It makes the emotions stronger and more real when you describe a visceral response.
Metaphors and similes are images that are not literal.
- Metaphors and similes compare two different things.
- In the following quote “heart” is compared to an “open door” which sheds light onto the type of love that the singer has for the singee’s character.
For example:
Because I love you, my heart’s an open door…
-Because I Love You
Here Are Some Resources That’ll Teach You How to Write Powerful Love Songs
Final Thoughts
Takeaway points:
- Write honestly about what you know from your own experience.
- You need to show vulnerability on the part of the singer.
- Also, it’s effective to show strong commitment on the part of the singer.
- Think about what the point of view will be. Consider the pros and cons of first vs second perspectives.
- Use strong imagery in your writing. However, be careful of how you write your imagery if you’re using second person perspective.
Have fun writing!
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